Does this question that waiters/ waitresses love to ask toward the end of the meal, bother anyone besides me?
Happened again Saturday night at the Rosebud in Somerville. A fine comforting port in the storm on a dark-as-sin evening. Things capsized when the friendly waitress looked over at my half-eaten salmon dinner and said: "Still picking?"
I realized right then and there I have a major bone to pick.
First of all eating is not picking. Picking is something that's done to a nose, a guitar and apples. Eating is the pleasurable enjoyment of food. It's not a task that needs to be completed in one fell swoop and ... take it away. DONE! Almost every time I've refrained from gobbling my meal in seconds, or before my tablemate, I'm accused of picking.
I know this shouldn't bother me w/ all the problems we face, but why can't we replace "picking" with the much more accurate and non-offensive "eating?" A simple, "Are you through?" would do. I think picking undermines what we are doing here. Worse, it feels like a slight. I can just hear my parents telling a 10 year-old me "Don't pick at your food."







